SparkleSpace Coaching
SparkleSpace Coaching
For more lightness & aliveness
Create a Life Aligned with Who You Are.
Every person carries their own essence and inner light – their “Sparkle”, as I like to call it. It includes your values, needs, way of living, as well as your goals, wishes and dreams.
Life can be busy and demanding, and it’s easy to lose sight of what truly matters to us. Sometimes, consciously or unconsciously, we find ourselves living out of alignment with who we are and what we want. We drift a little further away from our own Sparkle and rarely take the time to ask ourselves:
“How am I really doing?”
“Am I living a life that feels right for me?”
Through coaching, I aim to support and empower you in discovering, reconnecting with, or strengthening your Sparkle – whether in a specific area of your life or more generally.
Together, we create space for reflection, new perspectives and meaningful change, so that you can shape a life that feels more aligned with who you are.
Nathalie Rutledge
Systemic Coach & Creative Guide
Topics - How I can support you
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Life Transitions & Change
Sometimes you simply notice that something no longer feels quite right. Maybe there is a lot going on in your life right now, or maybe there isn’t – but you feel that something needs to change. Whether you already know the direction you want to take or you are still figuring out what exactly should be different, we will explore questions such as:
What truly matters to me? What brings me joy? What would I like to change? What do I want my future to look like? How can I move towards the life I want to create?
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Career Guidance for Young Adults & Teenagers
You may not be entirely sure what you want to do professionally – now or in the future. Perhaps you are unsure how to get there or simply feel overwhelmed by the many possibilities available to you. Together, we explore questions such as:
What are my strengths? What do I enjoy? What is important to me in life? How do I want to work and live in the future?
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Self-Discovery, Self-Worth & Confidence
Get to know yourself on a deeper level, learn to appreciate yourself more, listen to your needs and shape your life according to your values. Discover ways to navigate difficult situations, challenging emotions and thoughts with greater ease, so that you can move through life with more ease and aliveness. Together, we explore your Sparkle:
What are my emotions trying to tell me? What brings me happiness? What are my resources – my strengths, sources of energy and supportive people? What gives me energy and what drains it? What does a fulfilling life look like for me?
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Relationships
Disagreements, misunderstandings, communication challenges, different needs and expectations – every relationship comes with its own set of challenges. Whether you would like to create change within your relationship, prepare for an important conversation or make a decision about your relationship, we will work together to explore what feels right for you and how your Sparkle can shine brightly again. Questions we might explore include:
What do I appreciate about my relationship? What feels challenging right now? What do I currently need from my partner? What do I need in order to feel truly comfortable and fulfilled within my relationship?
The SparkleSpace Approach
My Approach
As a systemic coach, I support you on your journey – because the answers already lie within you. With curiosity, care and genuine encouragement, I invite you to reconnect with yourself and discover (or rediscover) your Sparkle.
Systemic coaching does not view you in isolation, but as part of the different relationships and areas of life that shape your experience – such as family, partnerships, friendships or work.
The focus is on your strengths, experiences and resources, as well as exploring new perspectives that help you develop your own solutions and move forward in a way that feels right for you.
My Values & Way of Working
I meet you as an equal – with openness, curiosity and a supportive, individual approach. Mindfulness plays an important role in my work: being present, noticing what is happening within and around you, and approaching yourself with kindness and compassion. I support you in finding your own path and offer guidance along the way, without providing ready-made answers.
In my coaching, I draw on:
Conversation and reflection
Creative and playful methods
Body awareness
Evidence-based knowledge and insights
Mindfulness practices
Coaching & Therapy
Coaching and therapy sometimes use similar methods, but they differ in both purpose and depth.
Coaching supports self-discovery, learning, orientation and change in everyday life. It is intended for people who are psychologically stable and looking for greater clarity, new perspectives or support in navigating a particular challenge or life situation.
Therapy goes beyond this and is important when addressing deeper psychological distress, mental health challenges or clinical conditions that require treatment.
Benefits – What Can Coaching Offer You?
At the heart of coaching is your personal topic – whatever is currently on your mind. The goal of the coaching process is to support and guide you through the challenges, questions or changes you are facing. At the same time, coaching can help strengthen your inner mindset, allowing you to approach your life with greater openness, ease, aliveness and motivation.
Openness.
1. Getting to Know Yourself Better
What makes you who you are? Which parts of yourself do you find difficult to accept? What are your thoughts, emotions and body trying to tell you?
Getting to know and understand yourself more deeply can foster greater openness towards yourself and, in turn, towards others.
Ease.
2. Being at Peace with Yourself and Appreciating Who You Are
How do you deal with challenging emotions and thoughts?
How can you accept yourself just as you are?
Self-compassion is the key to inner harmony. Learning to acknowledge and accept difficult emotions can improve the relationship you have with yourself and bring more ease into your life.
Aliveness.
3. Understanding Your Sources of Well-Being, Joy, Needs and Desires
What brings you joy? What makes you happy?
What do you need in order to feel fulfilled? How do you want to live?
Taking a moment to pause and consciously reflect on your life can be incredibly valuable. While this process can sometimes be challenging, it can also lead to meaningful insights. With greater awareness comes the opportunity to bring more aliveness into your life.
Motivation.
4. Shaping Your Life Around Your Needs and Desires
What do you want your life to look like? What would you like to let go of, keep or invite into your life? How can you make this happen?
Having a clear vision of how you want to live can create both clarity and direction. While change can feel challenging, it can also be deeply motivating. Even small first steps can strengthen your motivation, increase your enjoyment of life and inspire you to keep moving forward.
Ways to Work Together
To give you a better sense of what coaching with SparkleSpace looks like, you’ll find an overview of the coaching process, the different ways we can work together and the corresponding fees.
Coaching sessions are available in both German and English.
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If you are interested in coaching, the first step is getting to know each other. This gives both of us the opportunity to see whether we can imagine working together and whether coaching feels like the right fit.
Trust and connection are the foundation of a successful coaching process. While these naturally develop over time, it is important that the initial feeling is right. After a few days to reflect, we can decide together on the next steps.
This session lasts approximately 30 minutes, takes place in my coaching space at Emotionswerk Berlin in Prenzlauer Berg and is free of charge.
My Terms & Conditions apply.
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A regular coaching session lasts 90 minutes and takes place in my coaching space at Emotionswerk Berlin.
It is difficult to determine in advance how many sessions may be helpful for your particular topic. We will decide this together throughout the process. I generally recommend leaving two to four weeks between sessions, although this can be adjusted to suit your individual needs.
It is important to me that coaching remains personal and takes place face-to-face in a calm and supportive environment.
A 90-minute Sparkle Coaching Session costs 150€.
I believe coaching should be as accessible as possible. If finances are currently a concern, please feel free to reach out and we can discuss options together.
My Terms & Conditions apply.
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Urgent Sparkle Time is a 60-minute phone session.
Sometimes we need someone to talk to sooner rather than later. Perhaps friends, family members or partners are directly involved in the situation, or simply do not have the capacity to hold space for what is currently going on. This format offers you the opportunity to talk through your situation in depth and gain clarity, support and perspective.
A personal introductory meeting beforehand is required for this option as well.
A 60-minute Urgent Sparkle Time phone session costs 100€.
My Terms & Conditions apply.
You can get in touch or schedule a session in whichever way feels most comfortable for you:
The Coaching Space
Coaching sessions take place at Emotionswerk Berlin-Prenzlauer Berg – a warm and welcoming space to slow down, reflect and dedicate time to yourself.
Emotionswerk Berlin | Schliemannstraße 16 | 10437 Berlin
About Me
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I’m Nathalie, and I believe that every person has the ability to learn, grow and continue developing throughout their life. While we are often influenced by our habits, beliefs and patterns, we still have the freedom to choose how we think, act and live.
To me, a fulfilling life is not defined by power, status or wealth, but by meaningful relationships and spending time on the things that genuinely bring us joy. I believe in connection, compassion and supporting one another rather than competing against each other.
By consciously focusing on the present moment, we can experience life more fully and appreciate it more deeply. We can spend a lot of time reflecting on the past or planning for the future, but the only moment that is truly available to us is the one we are living right now.
This perspective helps me move through life with more presence, lightness and a positive outlook – and it continues to inspire both my personal life and my work as a coach.
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The following values are particularly important to me at this stage of my life and serve as guiding principles: freedom, love, learning, purpose, family, justice, connection, openness, curiosity, aliveness and joy.
Exploring your own values can also be part of the coaching process – if it feels helpful and relevant to your individual situation and goals.
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A few years ago, I started feeling that something wasn’t quite right. There was a growing sense of dissatisfaction, and I began searching for what was missing.
My professional background is in marketing, with a degree in Business Administration. Two things in particular encouraged me to reflect more deeply on my own path:
The focus on communication and psychology during my Master's studies
Watching my partner struggle with career dissatisfaction and eventually discover his passion for music
The second point even triggered feelings of envy at times – which, looking back, was really an expression of an unmet longing. I simply hadn't found my own passion yet.
Inspired by a book and by consciously reflecting on my values, needs, wishes and vision for the future, I realised that I wanted to completely change my professional direction.
Through countless conversations, a great deal of self-reflection (“What do I actually want?”), writing, researching, attending career fairs, trying new things – and, honestly, experiencing quite a bit of frustration along the way – I eventually decided to begin two new training programmes: one as a Pilates instructor and one as a systemic coach.
During my year-long coaching training, I realised: this is exactly where I belong. It allows me to use my strengths, experiences and curiosity in a meaningful way to support other people.
Today, I work as a Pilates instructor, continue to work part-time in my original profession and support people through coaching as they navigate their own paths. And along the way, I continue to discover my own Sparkle again and again.
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Personal Qualities
“What do you appreciate about me?” – this is a question I asked the people closest to me: my family, partner and friends.
Their answers were surprisingly consistent. They describe me as empathetic, attentive and open-minded – someone who makes others feel comfortable quickly. They appreciate my positive energy, genuine interest in people and my encouraging, proactive nature. They also see me as authentic, confident and inspiring – someone who not only listens, but actively supports others.
I grew up in both Hamburg and Berlin and am the oldest of five siblings, two of whom are still teenagers. This has given me valuable insights into different stages of life and personal development.
Education & Training
Systemic Coach & Creative Process Facilitator
Institute for Coaching & Mindfulness, BerlinCertified Pilates Instructor
YEAH Studio, BerlinM.A. Media & Communication Management
Mediadesign University, BerlinB.A. International Management
University of Flensburg, Flensburg
Schedule a Session
If you would like to schedule a Get to Know Each Other Session or book a SparkleSpace Coaching Session, you can choose a time that works for you here.
Whether you are looking for clarity, change or simply a space to reconnect with yourself, I would be happy to support you along the way.
I look forward to meeting you!
Nathalie
Feel free to reach out.
If you have any questions, a specific topic you would like support with, or would like to schedule a session, simply fill out the contact form.
SparkleSpace Coaching
Contact
Nathalie Rutledge
hallo@sparklespacecoaching.de
+49 152 07313412